Friday, March 25, 2011

China letter #2

     Taiyuan is a city surrounded by mountains on three sides, but one can only see the mountains on fair, sunny days.  Many, if not most days are cloudy or hazy both as a result of pollution and because we are still in the rainy season.  I am told that there are many more sunny days now than there were 10 or even 5 years ago because Taiyuan (and China) has done a lot to clean up its act the past few years, although the recent increase in automobiles here has led to the first decline in air quality in 5 years.  I have to admit I expected worse and only on especially bad days when I am standing at the bus stop does the air quality really bother me.
     In terms of air the stench of garbage is alive everywhere in this city because there are no dumpsters or even outdoor trash cans that I can see.  Piles of trash take the place of official garbage cans and double as compost piles.  In the apartment complex cement beds filled with dirt serve the same purpose, and unseen people come and take some of the garbage away.    I say some because it is obvious that it is regularly being taken ways, but some items will remain for many days.  Stray cats also live on or near the heaps ferreting out food, and if they are lucky they find some meat and can be seen running to hide with their treasure.
     The people are a dichotomy of cold, urban rudeness and old world hospitality.  Hoards of people push and shove each other to gain space on overcrowded buses.  On congested streets I am often jostled without apology, and people will unabashedly cut in line.  I often walk down the street to hear calls of “hello”, and if I look will get a smile and wave (usually these are young men, because the women are shy and seem to be less open).  If I return the greeting or simply smile and wave back I am usually met with beaming grins.
     The school where I teach is on a University campus and is thus teeming with young people.  Old people like to hang out on the campus as well I presume for its spacious grounds and courtyards.  They can be seen at various hours of the day enacting traditional Chinese chance for exercise or practicing Tai-Chi either individually or in large groups.  I see one elderly woman in the common court between our apartments daily, doing some modified form of Tai-chi or Qi-dong.   Seeing the elderly exercise outdoors in this manner is a routine sight, and I assume it is why they can live so long despite the terrible air pollution and public indoor smoking.
  I have not adventured much beyond my neighborhood yet as my teaching and my own school work keep me pretty busy, and I am conserving money until I get my first paycheck around the 16th.  I feel no pressing need to try to go out and find places, in the process of which I will inevitably get lost, since I have already seen so much in China.  It is kind of relieving and nice to just come home after half a day of teaching and stay home.  Some days I have a full day, but some days I only teach 4 hours.  I was asked to add 4 hours (for overtime) starting next week so I will be a bit busier. 
      It seems to be typical for Chinese (and Korean) people not to communicate in advance the plans of the day or changes in plans.  I was told last week that all the teachers had to attend a 1 hour training session about University application from a University counselor so we can better help our students in the process.  At 7:20 this morning I got a knock on my door to find out the training was at 8 am, and at 9 am there was a parent-teacher conference where I would have to talk about the student’s behavior and performance to the parents.  Last week they changed my schedule, but did not tell me, so I went in to school after lunch only to find out I did not have to teach for 2 more hours.  If one wants to learn flexibility, Asia is the place to do it.  I am actually amazed at my own level of patience and tolerance in terms of the noise, being pushed or elbowed on the bus, waiting for buses that don’t arrive on time (and then 2 arrive one after another!).  I suppose I have to owe it to a combination of my older age and yoga.
Sasha



China letter 1 -arrival in Taiyuan

    I arrived in Taiyuan at 9:30 pm and was met by a friendly school administrator named Cherry, my boss’s husband and one of my students.  They cheerfully loaded my luggage into the car and informed me that my boss and two other students were waiting for us in a restaurant where we would have dinner.  The feast was traditional Chinese style with a round rotating table and multiple dishes.  Since I had eaten during my 5 hour layover in Beijing I was full, but sampled from various dishes to appease my hosts.
    After dinner I was taken to my apartment which is below my boss’s apartment.  It is very spacious and has several closets, in sharp contrast to my Korean apartment.  However, it is similar to my Korean apartment in that I have a wet bathroom (the shower is open and the whole bathroom floor gets wet and drains out.  The kitchen is also wet (unlike my Korean kitchen) because the washer is very third world.  A hose extends from the bottom of the washer so the water will pump out into the floor drain (but of course it goes all over the floor anyway).  I tried to put the hose in the sink, but discovered the washer would not run if I lifted the hose.  An entire wash, rise, spin cycle takes either 6 or 9 hours.  I have no dryer so my clothes drip dry on the ceiling rack built into the kitchen.  This is a plus, since in Korea I hung clothes over doors and on the windows to dry.  I have a gas stove top burner to cook and a refrigerator and freezer.
    Driving in China is as crazy as I remember.  There seem to be no rules other than try not to hit the guys near year or trying to pull out in front of you.  I would not want to drive here.  The drivers do not even pay attention to the marked lanes and pull in and out of traffic on the faith that other drivers will stop, and miraculously they seem to.  Honking the horn is the main tool driver’s use to clear the way, although with so many horns blaring it’s a wonder anyone pays attention at all.
  I had forgotten the odd Chinese habit of standing around like sentinels when waiting tables.  Since I am alone this time and not with other teachers, it can be especially uncomfortable being watched by 5 or 6 waitresses waiting to attend my every need all for no tip. 
    My boss and her husband are very nice.  They invited up to their apartment for lunch the other day.  Her husband (like mine) does most of the cooking.  Lunch consisted of rice and some side dishes including: corned beef, cold tomatoes topped with sugar, soybeans cooked with beef, and some kind of soft spicy crouton, and spicy peanuts.  They toasted me with Tsingtao, the most known Chinese beer.
    My students speak English quite well and are very ambitious.  Each class is 2-hours long, which I find difficult since I am not very long-winded or naturally talkative.  However, so far things are going pretty well and the students seem to be warming up to me relatively quickly.  Classes are six days a week, but my actual normal teaching hours are only 20-hours per week with the rest of the time for class preparation (which for the academic classes is considerable so far). 
    Today I saw firsthand the efficiency of Chinese medicine.  For $35 and in about ½ hour I and many others got a blood test, urine test, sonogram, EKG, chest X-ray, blood pressure, height, weight and eye check.  Next time I need a physical I think I just come to China!  I wonder why American medicine cannot be so efficient.  They simply took one person after the other in each room for each task and got it done in record time.  At least 30 people got done in the same hour.
    My boss and her husband are currently in my apartment taping up the internet cord to the walls so it won’t be in the way on the floor.  That is very nice of them.  Personally I would have lived with it on the floor for 10-months.
‘Til next time….

The Final Good-Bye

I fold your T-shirt and put it in a cardboard box,
along with all my memories of you.
The threat of tears choked into the pit in my stomach,
 a writhing serpent, swallowed whole.
I choke back the vomit as the serpent grows.
It’s nothing personal, I know,
But I can’t help but feel this death is final.
 We have nothing in common; we haven’t spoken in ages;
Yet the memories of our brief time haunt me,
 and I feel your absence all the more now,
even as I attempt to drown the dragon in my belly.

copyright March 2011

The Perfect Moment

It was the perfect moment –
Youthful exuberance mingled with unconsummated love.
If only I had known that that moment was the penultimate one-
The moment that would both haunt and console me,
the way whiskey consoles an alcoholic.
I don’t regret losing that moment
 any more than one could truly regret enjoying an exquisite delicacy.
I have only just learned in my fourth decade that time savored in the present
Is a precious gift, while time mourned or hoped for is a recipe for a life
Of mediocre pleasures and dulled sorrows.

copyright March 2011 by S. Mink